This Blog Has Moved!

I moved my blog on New Years Day, 2010. If you haven't come to see my new blog, head on over HERE now. This blog will be available for archive reading but I won't be posting here anymore. I hope you'll join me at my new bloggy home!

p.s. I am slowly but surely moving all the blogs I follow over to the new blog, so if I haven't come to visit you for a while, my advice is to leave a comment on my new blog, so I don't miss you in the shuffle!

About Me

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I am a bereaved mother and wife. I began this blog to help me look for the "good things" in life after my daughter, "Babybear", died in July 2005. Three years later, her daddy, my husband, "Bear", died in November 2008. (You'll find a link to their stories on my blog) And now, as difficult as it is, I continue to look for the good things in my life as I learn my new normal with my pup, "Furrybear", at my side. And the angels on my shoulder...

Monday, March 9, 2009

I'm Sorry

I have been informed that my blog upsets some people. I'm sorry. I am going to step away from it. I won't upset anyone anymore. I'm so sorry.

25 comments:

Kristina P. said...

Wait, what?!?! I love your blog! I admire your strength and courage so much. It brings a smile to my face.

Sarah C. said...

What?! This is YOUR blog - your place to express yourself. Shame on whoever said something negative to you. Keep posting about what you want. ((HUGS))

Liz said...

Who the F said that? This is your blog... you can write whatever you want. Seriously, who said that? If they don't like it, they don't have to read it. It's really that simple. Your blog should be like your journal, it's for you. Those who read it should feel privileged to be able to read it. Never censor your blog.

I hope you will, at the least, continue to post but under a private setting. Blogging is so beneficial for you. Please don't stop.

Laurie in Ca. said...

Oh Ter,

I sure hope you will re-think your decision to step away from here because of a few who should go and read elsewhere if they don't like what you share. I think the rest of us would lose out alot. We are here to encourage you and be blessed by you too. I love your heart for the NILMDTS foundation. What a gift of the heart you desire to share with others. I encourage you to pursue it. Feel free to email me if you need to chat okay?

Much love and hugs, Laurie

*Just Jen* said...

OMG! Are you serious!? Ter, this is YOUR blog, not theirs!!! This is a place for you to write your thoughts and share them with your bloggy "friends" who CARE about you! Don't let them turn you away! Keep doin your thing girl! You know I support you 100%!!!

Caitlin said...

What? Don't be silly! If someone is being upset by your blog- then they can just stop reading it! Not make you feel bad about it! Grr!

I don't think that your blog is upsetting at all! It is real!

Tina said...

What?? r u kidding....Please email me and tell me what happened..

The Stemkoski's said...

Ter, this is YOUR blog, and if it upsets someone, they can choose to stop reading it (although there is no reason it should upset them)! This is YOUR place to do with whatever you choose. I personally feel that you should continue your blogging...I ENJOY IT! :)

Mrs Cooper said...

It doesn't upset me. Please don't stop blogging. Your blog is for you to express whatever YOU are feeling. It's YOUR blog. You have my total support.

April said...

Ter...What do you mean??? I am so confused!!! PLEASE don't leave us! I enjoy your blog so much and I love that you can be so REAL about everything you've been through. Stay...PLEASE!!!

Teri said...

I don't know how your blog could offend anyone - whoever said that is just mean and hurtful! Please don't leave, Ter! :(

Yaya said...

Ter,
What are you talking about?? I LOVE your blog!!!!

Your blog is YOUR blog. You write whatever you want and if someone doesn't like that then oh well, they don't have to read it.

I've had this issue with my blog too. This is the main reason I have comment moderation on my blog, so I can weed out nasty comments. yes, nasty comments. What's wrong with people?? I don't know, but something for sure is.

Ter I honestly love this blog and you and this makes me so sad that someone said something stupid to make you not want to blog.

It's hard, but you need to separate from the negativity and realize that your blog is yours and you need to write it for you and no one else.

(((Hugs)))
Alicia
yayaorangenanny@yahoo.com

sandy said...

It's your blog! Your way of healing. Those who are upset by your blog should just not read it. I'm here for you!

{{{hugs}}}

Jo said...

IMHO if your blog upsets people then they should quit reading it... much like you and I quit reading blogs that we don't like. We dont bitch about them to the owner of the blog... we just quit going there.

Rude.

Emily said...

((Ter)) You not blogging anymore upsets some of us.. so who are you going to please? Your adoring fans. Don't take too long of a break, please!

blueviolet said...

I'm so sorry you've been made to think that way. I've been enjoying it very much.

MemeGRL said...

Um...are you forcing them to read it? Unless it's privacy issues (ie, writing things about identifiable people in your life), if you like your blog, keep writing. Does it upset you? Then step away. Of course I'm just sad since I just "found" you again and now you are talking hiatus.
You can't please everyone. But clearly you are upset. I hope you feel better soon!

Vickie said...

Ter, this blog is for you! It is the place for you to be you.

Don't go.

Lana said...

WHAT?!?!
If your blog upsets some people, those people can always click on the "x" at the top. No one is making them read. Someone actually told you that?? *I* am so sorry you experienced that. Please stay? Please? I'm sure I'm not the only one saying this, but you have my blog support. Really.

*Just Jen* said...

I gave you an award at my blog! ;-)

Monica said...

I love reading your blog! You are an inspiration and I always enjoy your entries. I know we've never met, but to me you're kind, honest, funny and doing an amazing job at keeping positive despite the hand you've been dealt.

Sorry someone has upset you, but please don't step away.

Big hugs!

amber said...

I agree with all the comments before me.

There's this great song with a lyric that goes like this

"You can't please everyone so you got to please yourself." A blog is a place for YOU to write down your thoughts, feelings emotions. Others have the CHOICE to read it. If they don't like it, they can leave, simple as that.

I wouldn't feel bad about it.

Amber said...

I don't know if my last comment saved. It was long, so here is a shorter version.

This is YOUR blog. A place for you to spill your thoughts, feelings, etc. People have a CHOICE to read what you write. If they don't like it, they can leave. Simple as that.

You can't please everyone so you got to please yourself.

I wouldn't be upset about it.

Chelle said...

hi, a newcomer here to your blog! I'm glad that you decided to continue on with your blog. I'm touched by your story as many people are. Write whatever you want on your blog and so many before me has said! What you write is your feelings, your opinions. Venting can be very therapeutic for some and I don't care how negative you are, I understand that you have to feel those feelings and express them so that you can move forward and heal. Keep it up! you have many people who are willing to listen and comment and share their support!

Jeanne said...

Ter,

Ditto to Alicia's comment above... it's YOUR blog. Try to filter the positivity in and negativity out. :)

Jeanne