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About Me

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I am a bereaved mother and wife. I began this blog to help me look for the "good things" in life after my daughter, "Babybear", died in July 2005. Three years later, her daddy, my husband, "Bear", died in November 2008. (You'll find a link to their stories on my blog) And now, as difficult as it is, I continue to look for the good things in my life as I learn my new normal with my pup, "Furrybear", at my side. And the angels on my shoulder...

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Another Anniversary of The Crappy Kind

So a year ago today, I finally brought my husband home....


in a jar.*

a JAR.

a JAR.

and so he sits on my dresser
with my daughter
who's also

IN A JAR.











* yes, I know it's called an urn but that's the first word that came to my mind when I saw babybear's urn for the first time.

14 comments:

Joc(e) said...

(((BIG BIG HUGS))) I'm so sorry Ter :-(

Niecey said...

I'm so sorry

sandy said...

(((hugs))) :0(

Jill said...

I'm sending you lots of HUGS today!

xx

Respectfully Yours said...

My love to you. It just doesn't feel right. I lost my mom 2 years ago. We were going to spread her ashes so I brought my mom home in a small carboard box. hmmm. God Bless you.

Laurie in Ca. said...

I am sending lots of love and hugs to you today Ter. I am so sorry for all of this loss. It just doesn't seem right that all of this has happened to you. Prayers for you too sweetie.

Love and Hugs, Laurie

Jodi said...

Ter, words can't describe how sorry I am for all of your losses. I'm praying that you will find peace in your heart...(((hugs)))

Angela said...

I don't have words to express to you..I'm the type that wants to comfort, make it all better, pick you up...I think I will just sit with you and look at the jars that sit together,,,sigh...side by side...

((hugs))

MemeGRL said...

Thinking of you, Tery. Hang in there.

lisaschaos said...

You are one of the strongest people I know to go through all of this and still have your sanity, even if at times you don't feel like you're doing very well, I think you are one brave lady!

Jenners said...

Ugh. You have more bad anniversary days. Sending hugs!

otin said...

Ter, you just sent chills down to my socks! ((Hugz)) I am also inspired by how you have carried a torch for others who have suffered. You are a warm and wonderful woman!

Michelle said...

Here is a big ole hug....

Shea said...

My daughter is in, what I will call, a vile so I can understand the sadness. I'm so sorry Ter. ((((((HUGS)))))